Insights On The Invitation To Invest In Infidelity.

Saturday, May 9th, 2015

August 27, 2015 update: The recent hacking of Ashley Madison and the dumping of user data has resulted in some fascinating commentary and analyses, most of which I’ve read with a smug look on my face. For example… It would stand to reason that the similar dating, “arrangement” and sugar-whatever sites are, in reality, big […]

Standardizing the Deviants: The Economist Visits Sex Work

Thursday, August 14th, 2014

Call me jaded, but I always cringe when I see a mainstream publication report about sexwork. The “experts” are rarely those who live and work in the business, and the only real nod to personal liberty lurks in the mad minds of the statisticians hired to take liberties with the data. A lady can only […]

Deep Thoughts

Thursday, September 19th, 2013

I recently returned from a particularly wonderful dive trip. Each time I go out, I am left with different impressions and sensations, which cause me to think about the experience in a whole new way.  Diving is always mesmerizing because of its beauty, quiet, and lack of gravity. To dive with sharks is quite surreal […]

Boobs and Balls. The Audacity of Angelina.

Thursday, May 16th, 2013

I just want to take a moment and gush over Angelina Jolie’s decision to undergo a double mastectomy and reconstruction in light of her family’s history of breast and ovarian cancer. She clearly values her role as a mother over anything else in her life and wants to do everything she can to be there […]


Thursday, April 25th, 2013

So, I had a date. It was wonderful! Correction—it was SPECTACULAR!! The chemistry was on, the vibe was happening, the food was great, the conversation was exciting, and the bedroom was through the roof! Maybe we were reconnecting or maybe we were new lovers. (It’s happened with both.) We indulged in a passionate goodbye, and […]

Pop Quiz

Monday, April 22nd, 2013

I love to get to know my clients, but I’ve never been inclined to ask too many personal questions unless our conversations clearly warranted that level of intimacy. I figure that my friends will share what they feel is comfortable for them, and since my goal is create an atmosphere of erotic serenity, busting out […]

Auld Lanxiety

Thursday, March 7th, 2013

Am I the only one who thinks that 2012 needs to be gone and stay gone? I realize that it’s passé to live in the past, presumptuous to live in the future, and fashionable to live in the moment, but sometimes it’s not that easy.  Since May, my project has been to peel the recent […]

“Grey” Matters

Saturday, June 30th, 2012

The most common question I’m being asked lately is, “How do you feel about 50 Shades of Grey?” I love it because it has opened doors of communication, sparked a whole new set of desires within my couples, and offered validation to inclinations they always knew they had, but were afraid to explore. But first, […]

27 Things You Didn’t Know About Me!

Thursday, May 31st, 2012

I lost my virginity on the Rhine River. My  favorite color is purple with a touch of red. I prefer teensy thongs to pantyless. I’m of Russian and French descent. On a dare, my photo appeared in Hustler Magazine’s “Beaver Hunt” when I was 20. One of my most treasured possessions is a “tit print” […]

Physical Graffiti

Saturday, May 12th, 2012

I woke up horny as hell this morning, with an overwhelming need to do something about it.  As I was basking in my post-orgasmic bliss and contemplating another, for no particular reason, a sultry parade of lovely ladies drifted through my mind; exquisite creatures, so complex, caring, and delightfully sensual! It’s no wonder that women […]